In addition to packing books and lunch sacks, returning to school often signifies the start of homework.
The topic of homework sparks considerable discussion; while some parents and educators argue that it is essential for children’s advancement, others strongly oppose it, particularly for younger learners. Furthermore, opinions vary on the appropriate amount of homework that is beneficial versus excessive.
Despite differing opinions, there are numerous strategies parents can employ to support their children when it comes time to study at home.
1: Provide a nutritious snack.
When children arrive home after a day at school, it’s crucial they have something healthy to eat. Nourishment is vital for replenishing their energy and concentration.
“Offering a snack is important,” advises Barbara Mathieson, a lecturer in early childhood care and education at Capilano University. “After a busy day with little opportunity to eat at lunch, they need to refuel to tackle their homework effectively.”
2: Allow for relaxation.
School days typically run from 8:30 or 9 am until around 3 pm. While it may appear manageable to working parents, this can be a long period for young learners, especially for those in elementary and junior high. Children need time to unwind just as adults do.
“Downtime is essential,” Mathieson emphasizes. “They need moments to just be themselves. A full school day is tiring, and even passive learning can be draining. They deserve a break.”
Though opinions on “screen time”—the time spent in front of screens—are varied, downtime can involve any relaxing activity that helps children feel at ease, whether it be reading, engaging in arts and crafts, playing games, enjoying time outdoors, or resting in their room.
3: Create a designated homework space.
Mathieson recommends establishing a homework area in proximity to a parent.
“Position the computer or child’s desk in a spot where you can supervise without being overbearing,” she suggests. “This could be in the kitchen or dining room while you prepare dinner, helping minimize distractions such as the internet.”
4: Ensure the workspace is conducive to studying.
Make sure the designated study area is well-lit and free from distractions like a television. Comfortable seating is also important. While achieving perfect ergonomics at home can be challenging, it’s crucial to prevent kids from sitting in positions that could result in discomfort or posture issues.
Additionally, ensure they have all necessary supplies: pencils, sharpeners, erasers, pens, markers, paper, rulers, and more. For younger children, organizing these materials can make homework a more enjoyable experience.
5: Use a timer.
Mathieson advises setting a specific time frame for homework, adjusting based on your child’s age and your own judgment—this could range from 15 to 60 minutes. A favorable time might be right before dinner, allowing kids to relax after school without worrying about homework right before bedtime.
If they finish early, they can engage in approved activities or explore websites, but if they don’t complete all their assignments, it may be necessary to close the books, leading us to the next piece of advice.
6: Recognize when to stop.
According to Linda Cameron, an associate professor at the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education, schoolwork should not overwhelm a child’s after-school hours or interfere with other significant activities. It’s beneficial to assist your child in communicating with their teacher about unfinished homework.
“Don’t place the burden of defending incomplete work solely on your child,” Cameron advises. “I often sent notes to school explaining how much time we invested and that we needed family time instead.”
7: Encourage organizational skills.
“Family calendars are crucial,” Cameron points out. Request that teachers keep students and families informed about assignment deadlines and examination dates. Ensure these are noted well ahead of time on a calendar that the entire family reviews regularly. This approach helps in planning effectively and reduces last-minute stress around assignments.”
8: Resist the temptation to do the homework for them.
Bear in mind, it’s their homework, not yours. A social studies project assigned to sixth-graders should reflect their abilities rather than those of perfectionist parents.
“Be present to guide but refrain from taking over,” advises Cameron. “Provide inspiration, help them find resources, and offer constructive feedback without providing direct answers.”
9: Don’t panic if grades aren’t perfect.
While strong grades are important for university applications, it’s perfectly acceptable for your child not to achieve top marks on every assignment. “It’s not catastrophic if they receive a less-than-stellar grade,” Mathieson reassures. “Experiencing challenges, such as getting a D, can serve as a significant learning opportunity, encouraging them to seek improvement next time.”
10: Maintain open communication with teachers.
Teachers may not always recognize how long homework is taking for individual students or if a particular child feels overwhelmed. Cameron recommends arranging a meeting if possible to discuss concerns, saying something like, “I’m worried about how much homework my child has, and I’d like to explore ways to improve their management of it.”
