Each day brings new, concerning reports about our planet’s wellbeing. Climate experts warn that we have less than a decade to alter the trajectory of the climate emergency. Consequently, many of us strive to live sustainably and partake in environmental activism as much as possible. But what implications does this have for parenting?

A continuous journey

Instilling environmental awareness in children goes beyond simply incorporating sustainable practices or having them learn about nature in school. It’s essential to nurture a generation that not only values the Earth but is also motivated to protect and advocate for it. This approach requires mindful choices and ongoing discussions. Fortunately, as parents, we can integrate these principles into our everyday routines.

Sarah Robertson-Barnes, a mother of two boys aged seven and eight from suburban Toronto, founded Sustainable in the Suburbs, a consultancy and blog focused on Zero Waste education. Her family emphasizes utilizing second-hand goods, sourcing unpackaged and local produce, using active transportation, and enjoying nature.

According to Robertson-Barnes, raising environmentally aware children involves helping them recognize the connections to the natural world, understanding ecological processes such as the water cycle and photosynthesis, and grasping how systems like supply chains function, including the significance of ethical practices and resources.

Marianne Ariganello, an environmentalist, scientist, and mother, is an active member of the Ottawa South Eco-Action Network (OSEAN) and organizes for For Our Kids Ottawa Community, an initiative focused on climate action. For Ariganello, eco-conscious parenting is about teaching kids that their choices impact the environment, fostering awareness of the relationship between nature and its surroundings, and instilling respect for the environment.

Parenting is an evolving experience that changes as children grow and develop. Below are some strategies tailored for various ages.

Infants: laying the groundwork

Anticipating the arrival of a baby is thrilling! It’s an opportunity to choose eco-friendly options right from the start. If you’re planning a baby shower, communicate your preferences effectively. Some suggestions include:

• Utilizing cloth diapers and wipes
• Selecting safe, second-hand baby items (research recalls beforehand)
• Focusing on necessities rather than indulgences
• Requesting services instead of physical gifts, such as a postpartum doula

Miriam Rabkin, involved in international development, founded the Facebook group Parents for the Planet Action Group and is raising a young daughter. “At this stage, my focus has been on cloth diapering, using reusable wipes, minimizing plastic, and providing her with nutritious, organic meals,” she states.

“As she matures, I aim to teach her the significance of every item she uses (and reuses) … I want her to form a connection to the earth and appreciate how animals and plants are treated.”

Toddlers: leading through action

At this developmental stage, children are keen observers and often mimic our actions. This is the perfect time to normalize low-waste habits. For instance, my toddler son understands that we separate our waste into compost, recycling, and trash—he even enjoys helping, like collecting cardboard tubes for recycling. He knows to bring our cloth bags whenever we head to the store.

“Modeling eco-friendliness, like much of parenting, is key,” emphasizes Ariganello. “When kids witness us engaging in eco-friendly practices, they perceive these actions as the norm and are likely to imitate them. Parents set the standard, so it’s essential for them to see us as advocates for the environment.”

Children: navigating friendships and school

Once kids commence school, they connect with various families and lifestyles. How do you maintain your eco-friendly practices alongside families with different values? Yes, asserts Robertson-Barnes, although it may require flexibility.

For her children’s birthday parties, she creates low-waste, non-plastic party favors (like bulk candy). However, when her sons attend friends’ gatherings, she allows them the autonomy to decide whether to accept or decline goodie bags. “They always choose to take them!” she chuckles. “As parents, our role is to equip them with the knowledge and skills to make independent choices as they grow up, and I trust they will start refusing those options on their own.”

I asked Robertson-Barnes if her boys ever question why other families don’t share their lifestyle. “Yes, but this is part of parenting in any context,” she explains. “Every family has its unique practices, whether due to culture, traditions, or lifestyle choices. We clarify that while we choose option ABC, others may go with XYZ, and that both choices are valid. Diverse ways of living are enriching, and we can learn from one another.”

Teenagers: discussions about autonomy

Teens often explore different identities and may challenge societal or familial norms, seeking their own voices. A recent report from the UK revealed that almost half of all vegans are young people aged 15 to 34. Notably, young activists like Greta Thunberg have played pivotal roles in global climate movements.

For teenagers, maintaining open and honest communication is crucial, along with offering guidance when necessary. If your teen is interested in adopting a vegan lifestyle, consulting a healthcare professional can ensure their nutritional needs are met. Consider experimenting with new recipes together and assisting with grocery shopping and meal planning.

Conversely, for Robertson-Barnes, who maintains a vegetarian household, she quips, “If the major form of rebellion from my boys is munching on burgers wrapped in single-use plastic, I can live with that!”

You’re not alone

At times, it may seem as if the people around you do not share your environmental values, but remember, you’re not isolated! Seek out groups—online or in-person—that provide motivation, advice, and community support. Parents for the Planet is one notable organization.

“Connect with parents and friends who share similar values,” suggests Ariganello. “This will enhance your experience and could inspire one another to continue nurturing responsible and eco-aware children.”

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