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By Paul Hewett | Contributor
Finding the Right Divorce Attorney
If you are facing the possibility of divorce, what steps can you take to reduce the trauma? Securing a knowledgeable attorney to guide you through the process can significantly ease the journey.
It’s essential to begin by selecting a lawyer who concentrates on divorce, specifically one who holds Board Certification in Family Law from the Texas Board of Legal Specialization. You can find a list of these qualified lawyers at www.tbls.org. Choosing a supportive attorney is crucial, as you need someone who understands both the broader context and the intricacies of the process. Prepare yourself for the challenges ahead; the multitude of issues can be overwhelming, but your attorney can help clarify the situation.
The Initial Consultation
Your first meeting with the attorney will be a consultation. During this session, they will ask questions about your specific circumstances, explain the process, and outline the next steps to take. I recommend paying the consultation fee in advance, if possible, as it signals your seriousness in hiring them. Feel free to bring a list of pre-prepared questions. Expect to spend at least an hour during this initial visit, and keep in mind that you may receive a lot of information, which you don’t need to memorize or jot down entirely. A competent attorney will remind you of key points as the process unfolds.
Confidentiality and Comfort
It’s important to understand that even if you choose not to hire the attorney following your meeting, that discussion remains entirely confidential due to attorney-client privilege. You control your case, so finding an attorney with whom you feel comfortable is vital. You might prefer a male or female lawyer or lean towards someone with a straight-forward demeanor versus a more diplomatic approach.
What to Expect After the Meeting
Chances are you will leave that meeting feeling more optimistic than when you entered. You and your attorney will devise a plan for moving forward. This pre-divorce filing strategy may include establishing separate checking and savings accounts. You’ll likely be encouraged to gather essential financial documents, including those related to retirement, investments, real estate, and vehicles. Being aware of your debts and credit card balances will also be beneficial, as this information enables your lawyer to assess the community estate involved. If children are part of the equation, you may be advised to maintain a calendar detailing the children’s activities, noting whether you or your spouse facilitate these events. This information will assist your lawyer in advocating for the children’s best interests.
Preparing for the Future
If divorce seems unavoidable, start educating yourself immediately and find an attorney who can adequately prepare you for the next chapter of your life. The right legal guidance will help you navigate the complexities and minimize obstacles along the way.
Editor’s Note: Paul Hewett is a partner at the Family Law boutique firm Orsinger, Nelson, Downing & Anderson, LLP, specializing in Family Law-related matters. He can be reached at ONDAfamilylaw.com.
