by Jeff Anderson | ONDA Family Law
Can a marriage that seems to be in disarray be salvaged? The answer lies in the commitment of both spouses to do the necessary work, which can often be difficult, to restore the relationship. Many marriages facing challenges can be repaired, and some may even improve significantly.
While opposites may draw each other in, often those who are vastly different find that their relationships are thrilling but fleeting. The most enduring marriages thrive on shared values.
At the outset of a marriage, couples generally share common values, but as individuals grow and change, their interests and beliefs can shift as well. A marriage might be in trouble if partners have diverged in their paths.
THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATION
Re-establishing a joyful marriage is similar to nurturing a healthy one, but it demands more effort and compromise. The key to this process is the communication skills of both partners.
It’s often said that marriage requires effort. That effort centers around communication, which doesn’t always have to feel laborious. Couples who enjoy lasting happiness in their marriages are typically those who engage in open and frequent conversations. Regular discussions without distractions, daily dialogues, and sharing both significant and mundane topics contribute to effective communication. Initially, this might feel like hard work, but with practice, it can become a natural and comforting aspect of the marital bond.
For couples who find themselves at a crossroads, committing to daily communication can be the turning point that either saves or ends the marriage. Engaging in conversations allows both partners to understand where their values stand at present. Reviving the marriage necessitates sharing these values and assessing if they remain aligned or if they can be harmonized through care, love, and compromise.
FOCUS ON THE DETAILS
The attention, thoughtfulness, kindness, and priority each partner extends to the other play a vital role in any relationship. The more consideration a husband shows his wife, the more attentive she becomes to him, fostering a deeper understanding of each other’s moods without the need for words, thus enhancing their overall connection and meaningful communication.
Couples who are determined to avoid divorce and are ready to invest the effort can positively transform their marriage.
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