By Tania Cowling
During the tween years, it is typical to start your first paid jobs, such as mowing lawns, walking dogs, or babysitting. Engaging in these activities fosters a sense of independence and teaches essential skills like time management, reliability, and financial management. Babysitting goes beyond merely supervising young children while their parents are away; it is a genuine responsibility that requires full attention and accountability. Do you think you are ready for this task? Below is a checklist to determine if this job is right for you!
Can your tweens and teens answer these questions?
Are you comfortable being alone? It’s vital to feel secure when staying home by yourself, whether during the day or at night. If you feel anxious about being home alone, you may not be ready to take on the responsibility of watching over children in someone else’s home. Some tweens might feel fine during the daytime but get apprehensive as night falls. In such cases, it’s best to start with babysitting during daylight hours only.
How do you interact with younger children? Do you treat them with patience and care? Are you able to manage situations that require leadership or oversight? Do young children respond positively to you?
Can you manage unexpected or emergency situations? Are you capable of staying calm and thinking wisely during a crisis? Formulating an action plan and familiarizing yourself with basic emergency protocols can be invaluable in handling unforeseen events that may occur.
Are you knowledgeable in childcare basics? Do you know how to hold, feed, and change diapers? Can you comfort a crying child who has had a nightmare, misses their parents, or has fallen while playing? If you feel unsure about caring for very young children, it might be best to start with older kids until you gain more experience.
Can you handle the business side of babysitting? Babysitting is a job that necessitates interaction with both parents and children. Approach your babysitting duties professionally—clearly outline your available days and times. Be confident discussing your hourly rate. If possible, arrange a visit before babysitting to meet the children. Also, plan your transportation to and from the job.
If you answered yes to these questions, babysitting can be a fulfilling experience. It is a serious role that involves safeguarding the children and yourself. Keep these safety tips in mind:
• Get the address and phone number where parents can be reached in case of an emergency.
• Ensure that all doors and windows are locked, and ask which lights should stay on for late-night babysitting.
• Identify the fire escapes, fire extinguisher, or an alternate exit.
• Never inform callers that you are home alone with the children.
• Do not open doors to strangers. Since you are a “guest” in the employer’s home, remember these tips:
• Avoid distractions from social media or texting on your phone.
• Do not permit friends to visit.
• Stay away from closets, desk drawers, and personal documents.
• Only enjoy snacks that have been offered to you.
Editor’s Note: Tania Cowling is a former teacher and now grandmother who enjoys writing and blogging about mothering.
